I’m going to be honest. I am a big cynic when it comes to Valentines Day. And no, it’s not because my husband never remembers. He does. He’s great with stuff like that. He is just as likely to remember our wedding anniversary as I am, and sometimes when the whim takes him, he’ll even buy me flowers for no reason at all.
The reason I think Valentines Day is a crock is because after fifteen years spent in and out of marketing and promotions, I just can’t pretend I don’t see the dollar signs in those wilting over-priced roses and melting heart shaped chocolates. If Valentines Day is about showing someone you care, you shouldn’t wait for one day a year to show your love. Try doing something nice for your partner today. Anything that makes their life easier or brings a smile will do. You don’t have to save yourself for grand gestures. Think small and achievable.
Bring in the washing
Cook dinner
Give them a head massage
Show an interest in whatever is important to your partner and really listen to them
Kiss and cuddle on the lounge instead of watching television
Notice something helpful your partner does all the time and say thank you
Look deep in their eyes and tell them you love them
Run a bubble bath and share it. If this is not feasible, share a shower
Make love anywhere but the bedroom
Give your husband or wife a few hours away from the kids on the weekend. Let them do whatever they want, and afterwards don’t harp on about how difficult it was for you
These are just a few ideas to get you started. Use your imagination. Actions that show your love and appreciation mean so much more than gifts. And saving your love and affection for one money spinning day a year is not only meaningless, it’s a sure way to kill romance. Be spontaneous. Embrace each other. Make Valentines Day every day.
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